And best performance goes toooooooooooooo ... Let's call this the “REACTION” post!
And best performance goes toooooooooooooo ... Let's call this the “REACTION” post!
Let's pretend that we are not on computers and we are going to go out in public and write a blog and present it to anyone who will listen!
Are you going to read out loud and in my face word for word what you may have written on a social site? Or are you going to do it a little different?
Its like a text you get , when you read you think is that person for real or are they just bs'ing? But in person when they say it you know that they are either for real or just joking because of facial expressions! See my friends know what I am thinking most of the time because they say the words are written all over my face! But you a reader would never know this because I just have words and no physical expressions!
I don't know about you but this has happened to me with texting or email's , I say one thing and then all of a sudden I am being a bitch or any other word for that matter. Oh but wait, I forgot to put in the text LOL ! See how that changes everything if I say lol then all of a sudden I am once again funny and not so much of a bitch!
Remember just my opinion ,
I think in the blogging world or any other social media sites this happens much to often! We read the words and then all of a sudden we get this sense of omg is that person for real ? Or, I can't believe they said that about me? Or wait is that about me?
When simply they are just writing a blog! Maybe they are talking about a subject they love or about their life!
By the way its not always about you !! Or is it??
This is called a reaction and well as much as we want to walk away and be the better person some people just can't help them selves and they must have a reaction blog post or a comment war , whether it be on this site or facebook or where ever else you may choose to frequent!
It happens in real life !! If someone came up to you and said they did not like the clothes you were wearing, are you going to stand there and take it? Or Are you going to have a reaction!
Think about it!!! Now that is just an example!
We would not have debates in real life if people were not suppose to think or have reactions!
Am I even close to making a point?
I had this whole blog planned about the Oscars because I actually stayed up and watched the show ! Not sure why really I only saw 4 movies that were nominated and well who wants to read a blog about the movies??
But wait I am sure someone out there does!
I never wrote poems until I came on this site and I sure never asked to be a featured! Most of you probably can't stand that I am because I don't have as many readers as a feature should have. Or you just don't like me and well if that is the case no skinn off my back! I continue to write because it helps me to fight things that go on in my head and I never thought a blog would be the way to help me!
This is yet another example of a reaction!
My first reaction to the featured thing was thank you , I guess!
The first day was nuts went from 10 people fallowing my blog to up over 200 people ! I was very overwhelmed and confused! I still am for the most part lol
Anyway this post was just about reactions and how sometimes people just can't help them selves its human nature! There is always going to be that person in the crowed wanting to toss a rotten tomato in your direction!
If you chose to blog it's A you like to write and b you love to communicate !! Sames things in real life except in real life you just like to talk and be around people! Is there anything wrong with that?
Keep blogging people if you enjoy it ! If something bothers you why not post about it ? Just realize that someone somewhere is reading what you write and they are always going to have an opinion whether we like it or not!
I used to let the little things bug me around here because people think that they know me but really what you do know people is what I write! Maybe I was having a bad day and it came out in a post of mine or maybe I was upset at a comment ! Guess what just like in my real life Shit happens and I move on !
Tiggers~
Ps maybe I will think about writing my Oscar post now lol
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Comments
SEC
Um, I wasn’t even in contention.
February 25, 2013tiggers
really I thought I saw your name mentioned last night hehehe
February 25, 2013SEC
I hope not slanderously
February 25, 2013tiggers
No silly if that was the case you would see yet another “REACTION POST”
February 25, 2013timholzbaur
Hehehehehe….
February 25, 2013tiggers
Why so funny? I am just blogging
February 25, 2013pastormike
if anyone can put facial expressions in print, it’s you..
February 25, 2013tiggers
Is that a bad thing?
February 25, 2013pastormike
it’s a great thing! I love it!
February 25, 2013tiggers
Aww thanks I am glad , I was a little worried for a minute
February 25, 2013pastormike
read your post! don’t react..
February 25, 2013tiggers
hehehe you know I was thinking that very same thing after I hit send back to you LOL !!! Okay I guess I gots to work on my scribbles!!!
February 25, 2013noahbody
I post because I have to… generally I say reactions be damned but sometimes I’m in a vulnerable spot and have a bad reaction myself.
February 25, 2013tiggers
Exactly you just proved my point Tony !! Sometimes when put into a vulnerable spot we say and do things some good reactions or some bad ones! The thing is we all have them
February 25, 2013noahbody
Yes we do. After all… each of us is only human.
February 25, 2013tiggers
I look at this way , are we all just suppose to shut up and agree or are we suppose to have a say and a reaction? Yes Tony we all our human !
February 25, 2013noahbody
Hell, if we all agreed it would be boring as shit….
February 25, 2013tiggers
Exactly lol we would all be robots i would think !!!
February 25, 2013noahbody
Yep… give me individualism any day of the week….
February 25, 2013tiggers
I think that is why I chose Tiggers to be my name on here
February 25, 2013noahbody
LOL! I LOVE that name. I used to be Tigger (because of my bouncing moods) to someone elses Pooh Bear. Good memories though I never thought Tigger quite fit me… Tiggers are always happy, just as you almost always are.
February 25, 2013tiggers
It is a great name , no one calls me that though outside of this blogging spot! Even though I have a large collection of tiggers in my house and family and friends keep giving me them lol But it never caught on ? Funny !! Instead they try to shorten my name and call me chan or something like that! And well I am sure I could list a whole bunch of other names I get callled LMAO
February 25, 2013Neighsayer
Look, I know what you’re doing. If you got something to say, just say it. Bitch.
February 25, 2013Neighsayer
February 25, 2013tiggers
LMAO you are awesome!!!
February 25, 2013Neighsayer
Cheers!
February 25, 2013tiggers
Cheers to you See I could of had a reaction to that but I think I know your style a little bit better then if I was just a new face around here!
February 25, 2013cjb321
Great blog. But I’ve always thought you were a good writer, whatever your posted. Who cares what everybody else thinks. It’s what YOU think that counts!! That’s MY opinion. So there! +big smile!!
February 26, 2013tiggers
hehe !! Thank you very much! I was just sitting here thinking of my oscar post but this subject about reactions came to my mind! THat is why I said no skin off my back if no one likes me or my writing but I am very glad you do !! I like your opinion you are great writer as well !!
February 26, 2013danjames
Often things said in print or text or in emails are taken out of context because the facial expression or tone of voice is missing. Many times I’ve jumped down somebodies throat wrongfully because l thought something was intended that wasn’t.
February 26, 2013That’s one thing l had to control in my early days on the puter.
I find myself asking if the comment was meant a certain way or directed at me or l’ll just ignore it altogether. One think l know it that if someone is trying to goat you into a fight they will behave like a "pitbull " and keep going at you until there is no doubt to the intent. Well pitbull s behave better IMO.
tiggers
I think it’s just natural for humans to do this! and you are right if someone wants to start a fight they will take it all the way no matter and had hurt feelings in the mix there is no telling what will be said and done!
February 26, 2013danjames
I hate to admit l have been guilty of this at times myself but l’m trying to be better and not doing it. Just starting with those that deserve it but now l make sure they do.
February 26, 2013tiggers
I don’t think its a bad thing to react that was the point I was trying to get at! People are going to say and do as they please I guess maybe its how we say it that can affect a good or a bad reaction!
February 26, 2013danjames
Maybe….l don’t know. But at my stage of life l grow tired of going at people who may have done nothing to warrant it. Now days l confront only those that deserve it. And if l’m not sure l wait till l’m sure.
February 26, 2013I’m getting better at it.
tiggers
I think you may be missunderstanding what I was getting at ! I am not saying go out there and rip everyones head off ! I am just saying its human nature to feel a reaction! Its how we deal with it that makes or breaks it you see what I mean?
February 26, 2013danjames
Ok perhaps l did. but l must do a better job of stopping to smell the coffee before l throw coffee cups.
February 26, 2013tiggers
You know what I am going to take your cue on this one and try and do that myself !!
February 26, 2013danjames
Well in your case the times you have fired a tad early you’ve always allowed for a explanation and then if you were wrong you said so a apologized. That speaks well of you. Others know that they are/were wrong but it’s a simple case of " oh well " for them.
February 26, 2013tiggers
Well thank you I know I can run my mouth with the best and yes If I feel an appology is needed I will be the first to offer it up!!
February 26, 2013danjames
Well that one single fact separates you from others in here.
February 26, 2013tiggers
Well I hope its okay with you that I take that as a compliment
February 26, 2013danjames
No reason not too since it was meant as one. LOL So you going to rejoin my friends list again or what ?
February 26, 2013tiggers
Well seeing as I actually never removed myself from your friends list …
February 26, 2013danjames
No you weren’t. The first time l lost everybody all 42 of them. Got most of them back including you. But then several days later you and about ten others wree gone again. So L posted about it and since l didn’t get a reply l think you were pissed so l was going to let it sit for awhile until our exchange tonight.
February 26, 2013tiggers
Well I can honestly say I did not leave your friends list but it is fixed now and there we go
February 26, 2013danjames
Oh l never thought you left but l didn’t;t want to you think l was removing you either.
February 26, 2013tiggers
okay well its all fixed now
February 26, 2013danjames
But l see your here now and that’s a great way to end the night. Welcome back.
February 26, 2013tiggers
Thank you and yes ! This makes my post on reactions feel very validated and I appreciate it !!
February 26, 2013danjames
Well glad l could help you with past.
February 26, 2013tiggers
February 26, 2013