And best performance goes toooooooooooooo ... Let's call this the “REACTION” post!
Let's pretend that we are not on computers and we are going to go out in public and write a blog and present it to anyone who will listen!
Are you going to read out loud and in my face word for word what you may have written on a social site? Or are you going to do it a little different?
Its like a text you get , when you read you think is that person for real or are they just bs'ing? But in person when they say it you know that they are either for real or just joking because of facial expressions! See my friends know what I am thinking most of the time because they say the words are written all over my face! But you a reader would never know this because I just have words and no physical expressions!
I don't know about you but this has happened to me with texting or email's , I say one thing and then all of a sudden I am being a bitch or any other word for that matter. Oh but wait, I forgot to put in the text LOL ! See how that changes everything if I say lol then all of a sudden I am once again funny and not so much of a bitch!
Remember just my opinion ,
I think in the blogging world or any other social media sites this happens much to often! We read the words and then all of a sudden we get this sense of omg is that person for real ? Or, I can't believe they said that about me? Or wait is that about me?
When simply they are just writing a blog! Maybe they are talking about a subject they love or about their life!
By the way its not always about you !! Or is it??
This is called a reaction and well as much as we want to walk away and be the better person some people just can't help them selves and they must have a reaction blog post or a comment war , whether it be on this site or facebook or where ever else you may choose to frequent!
It happens in real life !! If someone came up to you and said they did not like the clothes you were wearing, are you going to stand there and take it? Or Are you going to have a reaction!
Think about it!!! Now that is just an example!
We would not have debates in real life if people were not suppose to think or have reactions!
Am I even close to making a point?
I had this whole blog planned about the Oscars because I actually stayed up and watched the show ! Not sure why really I only saw 4 movies that were nominated and well who wants to read a blog about the movies??
But wait I am sure someone out there does!
I never wrote poems until I came on this site and I sure never asked to be a featured! Most of you probably can't stand that I am because I don't have as many readers as a feature should have. Or you just don't like me and well if that is the case no skinn off my back! I continue to write because it helps me to fight things that go on in my head and I never thought a blog would be the way to help me!
This is yet another example of a reaction!
My first reaction to the featured thing was thank you , I guess!
The first day was nuts went from 10 people fallowing my blog to up over 200 people ! I was very overwhelmed and confused! I still am for the most part lol
Anyway this post was just about reactions and how sometimes people just can't help them selves its human nature! There is always going to be that person in the crowed wanting to toss a rotten tomato in your direction!
If you chose to blog it's A you like to write and b you love to communicate !! Sames things in real life except in real life you just like to talk and be around people! Is there anything wrong with that?
Keep blogging people if you enjoy it ! If something bothers you why not post about it ? Just realize that someone somewhere is reading what you write and they are always going to have an opinion whether we like it or not!
I used to let the little things bug me around here because people think that they know me but really what you do know people is what I write! Maybe I was having a bad day and it came out in a post of mine or maybe I was upset at a comment ! Guess what just like in my real life Shit happens and I move on !
Ps maybe I will think about writing my Oscar post now lol